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Contrary to what Emily Post might
say, no one will notice (probably) if you neglect to do either of these
things. Frankly, I’d far prefer that my guest do the dishes for me one
night than come bearing useless little knick-knacks that will only serve
to promote more clutter in my house. On the other hand, your host is
sure to at least appreciate the thought when you …
9. Bring a small gift.
This is something I generally neglect to do, then kick myself
afterwards for having forgotten, yet again, to bring my host just a
little something to say thanks. Nobody invites a guest expecting to
receive something in return, but a thoughtful little gift is a very nice
gesture nonetheless. Unless you’ve got a good sense of your friend’s
decorating tastes, I’d stick with food and drink. A good bottle of
wine, a gourmet jam from your hometown, those cookies from the bakery
your friend loved so much on his/her last visit to your place …
just make sure that it’s something special. As the cliché goes, it's
the thought that counts, so if you're not going to put a little bit of
effort into the gift, it's best not to bother at all.
10. Write a thank-you note.
Admittedly, I never, ever think do this, but on the rare occasions when
guests have sent me a thank you, I’ve always been impressed. If you’ve
taken any photos during your visit, make reprints and pop them into the
envelope as well. The note and pictures are sure to remind your friend
of just how much fun it was to have you visit – thus ensuring many
happy returns for you in the future.
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