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Lis Housemate |
I can always think of girls' names I like (i.e. Gabriella, Rosalie, Colette), but boys' names I can't decide on. I like the name Nathaniel, but I already know a couple and I'd like my children to have unique names. My bf though, doesn't think Nathaniel is "tough" enough for a boy name. His suggestion? Rocky. I hope he's just kidding... IP: Logged |
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yfy Housemate |
I'm sort of with whoever said they liked Biblical names...Micah, Isaac for boys(though Joe said he doesn't like those :-( ) and Julie, or Julia (NOT after J. Roberts!), or Juliet, Sarah (with or without the "H"), and Renee (mainly because it's my middle name). IP: Logged |
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briddy Housemate |
I used to babysit for a family that had 4 boys. Their names? Matthew, Mark, Luke and John--in that order. Also, it has always bugged me that Pamela Anderson named her boys Brandon and Dylan. Hello, BH 90210 anyone??? Anyway, I have too much time on my hands. I pick names according to how they will sound with Kip's last name since I am planning on marrying him someday. We have agreed on Glenn Robert for a boy. For a girl, I really like Bella Mae, mainly because it sounds really cool with Kip's last name, and Mae is my late grandmothers name. Other names that I LOVE: Not too big on boy's names. I guess I should pray for only one boy... Also, and I hope I don't hurt anyone's feelings with this, but my bf's mom named his little sister Shasta. That is a stupid name, in my opinion. It reminds me of that 80s soda pop. [This message has been edited by briddy (edited 04-10-2002).] IP: Logged |
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ragazzina Housemate |
Ireland/Irish: You have NO idea how funny I find that. Apologies. Imagine calling your child america/n... IP: Logged |
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Pinkegrl Housemate |
Ooooo, fun topic! Hubby and I haven't decided if we're ever going to have kids (I'm 33 and he's 34) but we like to discuss baby names anyway. I've always liked Piper or Parker for a girl, and would like to use Lyle as a middle name (that's my mom's middle name and my grandfather's first name). I'm not quite sure about boy's names - I tend to like names like Liam or Ewen, with Michael for the middle name (that's hubby's middle name). Hubby races motorcycles and he's come up with some rather interesting names. For a girl he likes - get this - Velocity Jill (Jill's my middle name) and for a boy Vanson Michael (as in Vanson racing leathers). Vanson's really not so bad - Van for short is cool - but I dunno about Velocity!
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acsst30 Housemate |
for a girl i like: -lily marie for a boy i like: -jackson IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: Actually, that's much more common than you think. I have known or known of people named: Ireland, Irish, and America. The geographic locations names have been kind of popular in the states... Montana, Dallas, Dakota, Houston, Austin (what's with all the western names, how come Connecticut hasn't been widely adopted?). No further comment on that issue though. IP: Logged |
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briddy Housemate |
In that movie "Where the Heart Is", the main character names her Wal-Mart baby "Americus". That is way more hideous than Ireland or Irish. Raga: I only chose that because my mother was born in Ireland. No one would name their child America because the American people and the American nation are not good enough to name an innocent baby after. Plus, Irish is pretty. It reminds me of Irene, another name I liked until that whole Real World incident with Stephen slapping Irene. Now it is tainted. IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
Um, that was kind of inflammatory, Biddy, but I won't bite. I like Natalie Elizabeth for a girl. (my boyfriend and I have discussed this extensively.) I love Alexander, and he loves Chadwick, which is an old man name suited for a stuffy banker in a Victorian bank or, possible, a large cat. But I think Alexander Chadwick (w/ his last name) sounds quite royal, and possibly like the kid will *have* to overachieve. IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: Oh, but they do, they do, briddy. IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
So, I was wondering, what goes into your decision making for choosing a name. Is it the pure, aesthetic sound of a name? Emphasis on a name's meaning or level of uniqueness? Honoring a family member or friend? Choosing a historical/mythical/fictional name that represents a specific idea to you? Keeping with naming traditons of your religion, culture, or family? Playground teasing factor (as in minimizing that by not naming you child "Dick" for example, especially if you last name's "Head.")? A combination? Anything else? For me it's aethetics, uniqueness (but not TOO unique), and the reprsentation of an idea or value. We've ruled out family & friend names because we don't want to partake in any weird family politics (which there are, especially on my husband's side) and potentially offending someone by not choosing their family line. I suppose the playgound factor is considered as well. IP: Logged |
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Pistachio Housemate |
quote: lol, Bionic Girl, that's priceless! IP: Logged |
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giamaria Housemate |
quote: Ouch, Briddy, are you sure you want to live here in the states? That's almost a slap in the face to everyone here, my dear. IP: Logged |
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Jessica Housemate |
I have a friend who's parents were hippies...my friend's name is Summer Star and her sister's name is Ember Frost. She has another sister named Jamie Joy, but she was going to be Jingle Joy since she was born near Christmas. One of the sisters had a baby girl and, in keeping with the unusal name thing, named her Ambryn. My last name is White...my mother jokes that she was going to name me Snow. Sometimes I don't think she was joking. So instead I ended up with the most generic name ever, and have had to be cautious about credit fraud and identity theft because of it. I've had credit ratings all screwed up when dealing with various things because there are a million Jessica White's with bad credit. Beware of naming your children common names! IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: Yep, my h's name is very, very common and when we bought our house we had to pay some extra fees to assure that he was not the same couple of guys that had bad credit. Stupid. you'd think the social security # would come into play there, but we still had to pay extra damn fees! I hear ya Jessica! IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
quote: My parents almost named me Lucia, because they loved Lucy. But I have a really Italian last name even though I'm only a quarter Italian. and they thought it would be overkill. On the hippy thing, my best friend's older sister was born while his mother was in full hippy mode, and was named Dagua [DAY-gwah]. Then he was born about 9 years later (different dad) and even though the parents were tending more towards a conventional lifestyle, they named him Rayne [Rain]. By the time his little sister was born 7 years later they were living in a subdivision, but they named her Esme [EZ-mee]. Which is pretty, but the three together are quite a spelling contest! I think we'll avoid *really* unique names and go for old-fashioned. I love some of my family's names (Katherine/Catherine, Thomas, Elizabeth, Margaret, Hanley) but hate his family's (Dominic (BOTH grandfathers! aie!), Beryl, Martha). So we'll most likely mostly avoid family names. [This message has been edited by hermia (edited 04-10-2002).] IP: Logged |
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briddy Housemate |
Sorry if I offended anyone. I stand by what I said though. I'm 100% American, but sometimes I am really ashamed of it. Why would you name your baby after a nation of lazy, greedy, slovenly, overweight opportunists? That's all I'm saying. And don't take it so personally you guys. If you can HONESTLY tell me that you can watch Celebrity Boxing or The Bachelor and not be a little embarassed for the U.S., I'll back down. If you can tell me that you didn't cringe when Clinton was caught with his pants down, fine. If you aren't shocked by the way we treat other countries, especially the poor ones that we infiltrate with our sweat shops and McDonalds, then I truly apologize. It hurt me that someone said that maybe I shouldn't live here then. Isn't the U.S. supposed to be a place of free speech? I'm happy to live in a place where I have the freedom to bash my government and put down the poor choices some of our people make. That's what America is all about! (joking, joking, about that last part. relax). I'm pissy today. Don't mind me too much. But I do mean what I said. Edited to say that I truly fear what is going to happen after I post this. Go easy on me guys. [This message has been edited by briddy (edited 04-10-2002).] IP: Logged |
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Sonia Housemate |
Hmm...well, not planning on having kids for some time although I find my hormonal clock ticking and screaming (heehee, get the joke?) every time I see a baby... Girls: Sophie or Sophia (used the first one on one of my dogs, though), Bianca (also used on a dog), Leila (lee-I-la), Padma (pud-muh), Michaela (mi-kye-ayla), Micheline, Michelia (see a trend here?), Helena, Parker, Madison, Padmini (after my mom, an Indian name), Megha (another Indian name), Shanti (also Indian!), Taylor, and many others. Boys: Phinneas (shortened to Phinn), Ian, Nathan, Oren, Owen, Hunter, Alan, Salman (Indian), Roderick, Daniel, Taylor, and many others. whew! IP: Logged |
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yeefan Head of the House |
briddy, I doubt anyone here would disagree with you that there's a lot that pisses us off about the US. What I suspect people have taken umbrage to is your suggestion that there are absolutely no admirable American qualities whatsoever that could possibly make "America" a worthy name for a child. There's a lot that makes me angry about the way things work in this country, but some of the fundamental American ideals -- freedom and equality for all, for example (I didn't say we've actually achieved this, but I do think that as a nation, it's something we're striving towards) -- are certainly worthy of admiration, in my view. I'm not saying I'd name my kid after my country, because like raga, I tend to think it's kinda odd to name any child after a geographical location, but I don't see why America is any worse than Ireland or India or China or any other place-inspired name. All countries have their good points and bad points. back on track and in response to BG's question, I'd say I pay attention mostly to aesthetics,uniqueness, and meaning. I don't really like the practice of passing along family names -- on one side of Ginsu's family, there are at least two of just about every name, and it's always seemed mighty confusing to me. The unique factor is tricky, though -- not only is there that danger of either ending up with a pretentious name or a totally cheesy one, it's also sometimes just hard to predict what's really going to end up being unique for a given generation of babies. Since everybody's name ideas come from somewhere, it's entirely likely that someone else will have the same idea that you do. A woman I used to work for named her daughter Maia, thinking that would be a very unusual name because no one in her generation had that name, and as it turns out, Maia/Maya is now a very common name for baby girls. IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
Well said, Yeefan. IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
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giamaria Housemate |
Yeefan is right on. There is just as much to appreciate here as there is to cringe about. I'm not proud of everything that happens here, but no country is perfect, I am certain that there isn't a nation that every citizen is proud of everything about their country. Nothing's perfect, but I'll take the good ol' U.S. of A. any day over a load of other options. I mean, France seems pretty cool but then there's that Jerry Lewis element that throws it all out of whack. (G tries to lighten the mood with some humor) I'm not p.o.'d or anything, it's just a really bold statement that you made and I think there's a lot to appreciate about living here that maybe you weren't considering when you typed it. IP: Logged |
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kellyrae Housemate |
quote: Hahaha I keep thinking about that Chrysler Concorde commercial where the mom and her little girl are in the car and the little girl asks why her new sisters name was Savannah and the mom says its because it was where she was conceived and then the little girl is like "well why is my name Concorde?" and looks down at the little nameplate on the car and gets it. hahahaha it cracks me up.
quote: Hahaahahah I'm in a silly mood today, but now I have the "Maya, Maya the bee" song in my head. Edited to fix boldness
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: Oh Lord, one of my cousin's is named Veroniqua... and it's pronounced Veronica. ?! The family all calls her Q, at school she uses her full name. At some point when she gets a little older, I think she's going to have a moment where she suddenly realizes, "What the hell were they thinking?" It's terribly annoying to have your name misspelled all the time. I can't imagine making it easier for all the idiots out there. Although, for names that have 2 spellings, I ususally go for the less common one (i.e. Vivienne over Vivian). IP: Logged |
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Jess Housemate |
Maya is one of my first choices for a girl's name becase it was my Gramma M's middle name (her first name was Noreen, yuck), but it has the ADDED BONUS of the "Maya the bee" song. Guess what she'll be for Halloween for as long as I get to pick what she wears. Does anybody know what they would have been named if they were the opposite sex? My parents were convinced I was a boy, and they were going to call me Brian David. My sister would have been Mark Brian. As far as close calls go, I was almost named Tanya. Enough said. IP: Logged |
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yam Housemate |
I think I was going to have been a Patrick if I was a boy. I came this >< close to being a Tiffany. (shudder) Thank god Brooke won out. IP: Logged |
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LazyGoddess Housemate |
Hmmm, names? Girls: Boys: *on a side note, a new interim minister at our church is named Shilo. It just intruiges me, I really like how it sounds but I just keep thinking of the book about the little boy and his dog. IP: Logged |
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Bjerica Housesitter |
Had my parents had another girl she would have been called Harriet. I think my brothers were very lucky to have been boys. IP: Logged |
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Sophie Housemate |
quote: uh oh - my best friend's ex is called Alexander Chadwick, and he has a really small penis, apparently.... IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
quote: I just spit out my coffee laughing. Was Chadwick his last name, though? IP: Logged |
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Lis Housemate |
I was disappointed to find that my parents didn't come up with different name suggestions for all of their kids, but rather kept the alternative suggestions on the back burner until they had a kid of the gender that matched the name (but I guess that's what I'd do with names I really liked). What I mean is, I would've been a Michael if I was a boy, so instead kid #2 is a Michael. Kid #3 would've been an Erin if he was a girl, so instead kid #4 is. The only different name I've heard was Ian, b/c that's what my sister would have been if she was a boy, but they stopped with her. Although my parents had already decided I was to be an Elisabeth if I was a girl, my nickname was to be Lisa until they changed it to Beth at the last minute. IP: Logged |
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ragazzina Housemate |
Vanessa and I (Catriona) would have been Jonathan and Christopher. I'm sorry if what I said was a bit icky. I wasn't saying what Briddy went on to say, just that I find naming someone after a place mor nationality is amusing. Especially when MINE turns out to be a popular one. I have a friend here called Ginger Irish, and I think that's funny. Irish as a surname. But that's understandable, as at ellis island, people were often names after their origin or a physical feature (small). I don't think that the US is inherently worse than any other state. ireland has its own share of political scandal and fuckedupness... Instead of obesity, we have alcoholism and child sexual abuse. Instead of the Oval Office Cigar, we have brown envelopes full of cash. Ireland was recently named one of the most corrupt states in europe. If you were basing your naming practice on the political, social and physiological factors of the country, would you STILL want to call your child Ireland? Apart from the amusement factor, there's no reason why not to call a child America if one were going to choose the name of a State. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but... I would see it as a nationalist statement. Ireland has had enough of that. IP: Logged |
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crowjoy Housemate |
We are trying to get pregnant (both of us, we're insane ya know) and our good friends are pregnant (just the one of them). They had a great name all picked out but her dad is pressuring her to name him Horace Herbert, after HIM. Ack, there is something disturbing and perverse about a father seriously feeling entitled to name his daughter's baby. He's actually threatening to cut off contact with them if they don't name the baby Horace (alternate spelling Whoreass). We weren't considering family names at all and now never will. Talk about politics. Since we don't want to know gender ahead of time, we have 2 names for each picked out and will let their faces decided which they get. So either: The girls names were the hardest because we wanted to make sure it would work from the bedroom to the boardroom. I like the boys names because they seem unusual (in the US anyway) and aren't too bland. I wanted to go with Zaephod but Mander thinks that sounds like a plant. IP: Logged |
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Pinkegrl Housemate |
quote: Ooooo, how 'bout Beeblebrox! IP: Logged |
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Pistachio Housemate |
My first name is Clarion. I like it, and I've never met anyone else with the same name. Although when I was small, I wanted to be Jennifer, Jessica, or Amanda like the other girls. If I were a boy, I would have been Davis. Other names my parents liked were Polly (!) Mom liked it, dad thought she was nuts, and Carrie. I guess I am happy with the outcome. IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: Um, pardon me, but that's F'd up. Can you say, "controling?" Seems like he of all people would understand that the name Horace Herbert is about the WORST name a baby would get, apart from making ultimatums like that just being downright jerky and childish. Man, I'm thankful for my parents. IP: Logged |
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briddy Housemate |
quote: Bum dum de dum dum! Let's play....(*drumroll*)...WHO'S COUNTRY SUCKS MORE?!!?!? OK, of course I'm joking. I find it humorous that you defended your statement by pointing out all the things wrong with Ireland, Raga. I'm not saying this in a snotty way, I totally see what you are saying. When I read it though, I had to laugh becuse it's like arguing over what is better: eating boogers or eating worms. Neither is better, and why are we even talking about it? [This message has been edited by briddy (edited 04-11-2002).] IP: Logged |
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Brookiebaby Housemate |
My parents almost named me the worst name in the world! LESTA! My grandfather's name was Lester and died about two weeks before I was born so they almost made that the female version of Lester. Ughh! Can you imagine? I can only imagine the nicknames that I would have been called. mo, for example. as in, lesta the molesta. THANK GOD they changed their mind. But, honestly, I have never felt like a "brooke". When I think of the name brooke I think of little blonde girls with ringlets and satin ribbons in their hair, etc. you get the picture. OH! I also wanted to say that "location" names aren't necessarily geographic locations but references to special moments in peoples lives (not necessarily conception either). For example, if someone used to spend a lot of time with their father at a certain campsite and it was her fondest memory, i can imagine her naming her first child with that name....does that make sense? [This message has been edited by Brookiebaby (edited 04-11-2002).] IP: Logged |
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Sophie Housemate |
quote: admittedly it was his surname. I've been worried all night that one day he'll do an ego search on Google and find me blabbing to the world that he has a small willy. IP: Logged |
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hermia Housemate |
quote: Oh, but how funny.... IP: Logged |
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