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Goddess09 Housemate |
I am not a neat person, and though I aspire to be, getting there seems to be beyond me. Every once in a while I can do it,when I'm having a party or something, but how can I stay tidy all-- or even most-- of the time? I bought a book today that is subtitled "the procrastinators guide to housekeeping." But what I want to know, cherished digsters, is what you do to keep the motivation flowing. If you give me your secrets I'll love you forever. IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
Back when I lived alone my house was always spotless. That's been about 8 years though. I am not the tidiest person. I have a mountain of laundry that has been shifted daily between the bed and the chair for 5 days now. At some point I just get fed up and go on a cleaning spree. Then everything is spotless until it gradually builds up again. I've stopped resisting this urge. I don't like any kind food-related dirtiness, so the kitchen gets cleaned pretty much immediately. The dishes may sit for a day, but everything else stays clean. The bathroom stays pretty clean too. I guess I don't know any secrets... maybe hypnotherapy. Seriously, it's hard to recondition yourself. If someone has any great tips I'd be up for hearing them too. IP: Logged |
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swede Housemate |
Reformed slob here ... I guess my biggest tip is throw away everything extraneous. Less stuff = more storage space + less stuff to clean = calmer, cleaner you. I'm not talking about throwing away your furniture or your Picassos, of course. And keep in mind, I was the kind of slob who had intelligent life growing in my bathtub grout till about two years ago, so I really know what works for us naturally laid-back types. *Take everything you haven't worn in a year to a consignment shop -- I bet it's half your wardrobe. You really, really won't miss it. Include stuff you're hanging onto for kinda sentimental reasons (not your grandma's wedding dress, but maybe that sweater your first boyfriend bought you?)Throw away the stretched-out undies, unsaleable stuff. Two things will happen. Your closets and drawers will be neater. And you'll HAVE to wash laundry to have clothes to wear, so you'll have less laundry lying around. Apply this tip to exercise equipment, tupperware, out-of-style home acoutrements, books that no longer mean anything to you ... Everything. Donate the useful stuff, and toss the rest. Just do this, and you'll notice your entire house and life is lighter and airier. *Get in the habit of cleaning as you go. After you've peeled the potatoes and put the chicken in to roast, rinse off the knives and mixing bowls and put them in the dishwasher (or wash 'em by hand). After your morning cereal, do the same thing. After you read the paper, put it in the recycling bin. After you fold the laundry, put it away. You get the idea. It becomes automatic after a while, and it really doesn't take any more time. I swear, these two things (the first self-imposed because I refused to move my entire mountain of crap yet again, the second acquired because my lovely fiance does it and it seemed like a nice way to keep the house clean) have turned me from a slob into someone who isn't ashamed to have somebody stop in by surprise. 'Cause when you don't have to waste 2 hours on the weekend washing all your dishes from the week, you can either clean something you wouldn't normally get around to (like the shower -- c'mon, everybody's got some soap scum) or do something fun instead. IP: Logged |
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emmalou Housemate |
Swede! You may have just changed my life! I only know two speeds: Slob, and Compulsive Neat Freak Who Loses All Perspective. But I am really, really struggling/striving to change that. I love hearing that it's possible. IP: Logged |
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BionicGirl Housemate |
quote: OOOOOooooooooohhhhhhh... you're supposed to FOLD the laundry. Hmmm. IP: Logged |
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kena Housesitter |
I am also an awful slob. Most guys I know don't believe me when I warn them ("That can't be THAT bad, you're a girl"...), then change their minds when they see my appartment. Hey, at least I'm doing something to break stereotypes... I'm trying to change, but I would really need an extra hour each day and a dishwasher. A few of my lazy tricks: - I don't fold my clean underwear. I just throw them in my upper drawer (which is usually separated in sections with cardboard boxes). Otherwise, I would throw them on my bed to avoid folding them, then on my computer chair at night, then back on my bed... until they fell on the floor with the dirty ones. - I have three linen bags for dirty clothes: one for dark, one for light and one for delicates. When I get fed up of clothes laying on my floor, I take one of the bags and fill it with clothes. So I turn piles of dirty clothes into three neat sorted bags. And when I do my laundry, the bags go in the washer too so they're always fresh (much cleaner and less risky than garbage bags) - I have boxes and baskets for a lot of things. Eg: I have a "bedside basket" for all those things that would otherwise clutter the floor around my bed. (Hairbrushes, cream tubes, matches...) The basket itself is a mess, but at least it's contained to a single area which I can easily hide and avoid stepping on. - I have as little dishes as possible, so it can't really get out of control. Otherwise, the only thing that will stop me will be the lack of counter space. I'll stop here cause my appartement is really a mess right now, even according to my standards, so I'll try to clean things up a bit before guilt kills me. Edited to correct tons of stupid late-night spelling mistakes. [This message has been edited by kena (edited 03-28-2002).] IP: Logged |
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Goddess09 Housemate |
I feel the tingle of inspiration. Thank you, everybody! Of course, that tingle is enough to make me think, "yes, I can do this, too!" but not enough for me to give up my sitting by the computer in a patch of warm (dust revealing) sunlight and get started. But that's okay, because it's early and I have the day off and I'll do everything later and it doesn't have to be now and then everything will be okay because in utopia I'll have a clean apartment where just thinking about it makes it so. Please keep the inspiration coming, my sweet muses. IP: Logged |
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Jezabel Housesitter |
quote: Um...so...I guess you aren't supposed to fold it at the laundrymat, but then leave it in the basket and throw the dirty clothes on the floor, then get dressed out of the laundry basket till it's empty, picking dirty clothes up off floor and placing them in the empty basket to return to laundrymat?? Probably not...sigh. IP: Logged |
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meredithva Housemate |
I'm also really lazy about cleaning, and one tip that helped me was from the Heloise column. She advised to dedicate a measly 5 minutes a day to walking around the apt/house and just picking stuff up. So, when I get home from work, and all I want to do is crash on the couch, I drop my bag, take off my coat, and just start picking up anything sitting around like wrappers, or cups, crumbs on the counters, anything I can see that looks quick. Once you start doing it, you'll have less little jobs, and might just dedicate those 5 minutes to putting away the laundry or ironing a shirt. Good luck from a slightly reformed lazy bum.
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emcarb Housemate |
When I clean, to keep motivated, I start by putting on a favorite cd, and I sprinkle that carpet fresh stuff all over the place, so when I'm moving about, it gets all over my feet, and stirs up everywhere. I think the fresh smell of it makes me want the whole place clean! IP: Logged |
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suzette Housemate |
I too have slovenly tendencies. Getting rid of stuff you don't use is the best thing you can do. It's so liberating - and it makes room to get your life organized. Same for clothes. This is challenging in my house though, because C. is a pack rat in the worst way. Back in December, I cleaned the house top to bottom. I got on my hands and knees and scrubbed baseboards, I cleaned the walls, and got rid of a ton of junk. Then I rearranged the living room. It was like living in a new place. It's kept me motivated enough to keep it clean. Not spotless, but bearable, and certainly much better than it's been in the past. Good luck! IP: Logged |
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eva ash Housemate |
If you're deadly serious about getting your digs organized and clean and keeping it that way, this is the site that will help you make it happen and keep you motivated. If you sign up for their daily emails I recommend setting up a seperate email account. You'll get quite a few emails every day. Anyway, lots of people swear by this method. IP: Logged |
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giamaria Housemate |
I tell you,,,buying a new vacuum that has the window so you see all that it's picking up will make you want to vacuum..it makes the chore very cathartic and makes you want to do it 24/7! I am by no means a messy person, but it's great what a new vacuum can do! I need to try that "5 minutes" trick. IP: Logged |
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acsst30 Housemate |
eva ash, that website was great....i'm so stoked to go home and look for 27 things to throw out! i will de-clutter!! i always have to have my kitchen clean, though. counters are clean and uncluttered, stove top is cleaned without splatters from cooking, and no dirty dishes in the sink. IP: Logged |
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mamichan Housemate |
i agree with swede -- less stuff, calmer you. i know it's hard to throw stuff out, but you can keep the memories that objects bring you without keeping the object itself. i'm not saying you should throw away heirlooms, but i just emptied out a shoebox of movie and concert ticket stubs, etc. clean/pick up as you go along. this is key, i think. been trying to get hubby to do this... he is a big slob. very messy and unorganized. i use baskets/containers for just about everything. the clear plastic kind, so you can see what's inside without opening it up and digging around. those tackle boxes and craft boxes with the little compartments do wonders. also, have a set place for things. my hubby always loses his keys, so now we have a key hook. keys go on the key hook if we are at home. and jackets go on the coat rack instead of on the couch. little stuff like that helps keep the clutter at bay. IP: Logged |
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Gnome Housemate |
Try one of those herbal metabolism boosters that you can get from the health store. I took one and sat on the couch, 3 minutes later I was vacuuming and cleaning like a fool! Although, the next morning I felt like I had drank a bottle of vodka. IP: Logged |
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neverever Housemate |
My biggest problem was dishes. I started to force myself to clean them up *as soon* as I was done with them, and it's now just become habit. If there's dirty dishes in the sink, they aren't mine anymore I have issues with the laundry though. I'll either just take things off the drying rack as I need them, or pull it from the basket of clean clothes until it's empty again, or throw dirty clothes on the floor until I do laundry. My bedroom is small, so that keeps it in check, but it's getting to be a problem. I think when I move to my new apartment, I'll get three hampers and just sort it as I go--that sounds like it would be much easier. IP: Logged |
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Goddess09 Housemate |
You guys are all so great. It's wonderful to know that others have taken control of their inner savages and resolved to live a neat and tidy life. Your tips are soooo helpful, and more than that-- they're practical and easy and unintimidating. Flylady is wonderful. You're all wonderful. There's just lots of wonderful. But now I'm addicted. More? (Edited to change "helpdul" to "helpful", which in my opinion is much more true and less of an unintended insult. . .) [This message has been edited by Goddess09 (edited 04-25-2002).] IP: Logged |
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leanne Housemate |
You want more?!!! OK, that FlyLady site is going to be my (and Sean's) salvation. We have set up a system, based on the FlyLady system that I've mapped out in a calendar (when I get back to work, I'll post it or something for those of you wanting a tool to use) that lists three columns: day, zone, done?. (Zones are sections of the house you work through on a week of the month basis - e.g Zone 4 is Living Room - go to www.Flylady.org to get the low-down on the whole system) In the Zone column I have mapped out the Zone for that portion of the month and listed, where I know them, the general tasks for cleaning that section. In the Done? column I'll check off whether I worked 15 minutes in my Zone for the day (and that's the crux of the program - 15 minutes everyday, working as fast as you can on something and dropping it when the 15 mins is up will lead to a consistently clean home) and it lists whether Sean and I have a big thing going on that night of the week to help us with our meal planning (I love to buy food but most of it goes off because I won't be able to make all the meals I plan because we aren't even home for dinner 3 nights a week.) At the bottom I have listed out a list of chores to do in one hour every single Sunday (our major cleaning day) that covers the basics of keeping the house dust free and tidied up. During the week, if you notice that things get out of hand you can do what FlyLady calls a Hot Spot Fire Prevention where you go to the spots in your house that are always the big clutter magnets (coffee table, hall shelf, chair in bedroom...) and clear it out in 15 minutes or less. General major Rules: Give everything a place, a home, and always return it there when done with it. Routinely re-assess sections of your house with this idea in mind: what would it look like if it was perfect - and then do that! Routinely de-clutter by running through the house with a bag and a box and throw 27 things in the bag to throw out and 27 things in the box to donate. If you don't use it or haven't for the last six months (barring seasonal) - THROW IT OUT OR DONATE IT When donating a box of stuff - put the box in the car, don't leave it sitting in the room/apartment - you're more likely to get rid of it right away if it's not inside your home. OK, those are all my ideas for now! IP: Logged |
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fluffygurl Housesitter |
Alternativly you can invite your folks over. Knowing they are coming over and will more than likely nag you if ur place is a tip will inspire yoou to clean! IP: Logged |
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Sophie Housemate |
I am one of Nature's untidiest forces, you can ask my mum. Typhoons do piffling damage to property compared to me. I too reformed - I think it was a growing up thing. I have only recently discovered the "five minutes as soon as you get home" trick several people have mentioned, and it really does work. You can actually get on a bit of a roll once you start putting stuff away. I also second the basket idea - keeping all your junk corralled won't turn your house into the epitome of minimalist chic, but it will keep you organised. I have very strict rules about what's allowed to be on any given surface - the fruit bowl is the ONLY thing with permanent residency on the coffee table, and clearing away all the glasses and remote controls and clutter at the end of each day makes the sitting room look under control. That mess is cumulative was one of my biggest discoveries. You have to make it easy for yourself to keep tidy. Our house is 3 storeys, and I tend to get changed while wandering around between my bathroom (1st floor) and bedroom (2nd flood). I know my bad habits well enough to realise that if I take something off and there isn't a laundry basket within 3 steps, I'll probably drop it on the floor, so I have 3 laundry baskets dotted around the house. I also keep a pack of those cleaning wipes (like Wet Ones, but for tiles) in each bathroom, so if I decide the sink needs a clean, I don't have to go wandering off looking for a sponge, cleaner, etc. Same with keeping a broom on the top floor - keep your tools to hand. IP: Logged |
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crowjoy Housemate |
I am cleaning impaired. It's a genetic condition. I clean and clean but even what I just cleaned is messier than before. I iron and things come out wrinkled. It's a mystery. I heard though that children raised in a tidy environment are more likely to go to college and do well in life, so I have official motivation. The FlyLady just might be the trick! IP: Logged |
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yam Housemate |
yeah, word to the flylady, I just signed up too. I thought my boyfriend would giggle at my temporary sink-cleaning obsession, but he just said "oh, good, I think I forgot to bleach it out after the raw beef last night anyhow.." when he saw me cleaning it. Oh. You're supposed to bleach it regularly? Heh. IP: Logged |
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giamaria Housemate |
any tips on helping encourage a boy to tidy up his place? Sometimes I think that boys don't see dirt like girls do. Or is it just that it's easier to see other people's dirt? IP: Logged |
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SunshineTreva Subletter |
You have to love FlyLady. I've been with her for almost a year now and it's been great. The best thing is that I can go at my own pace, kind of like homeschooling but for the cleaning impaired. IP: Logged |
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kena Housesitter |
Thought I might check how you're doing on your "getting clean quest". I'm proud to say that I've been able to keep my dirty dishes under control for the past three weeks, which is quite a success since my efforts at keeping the kitchen clean usually last only a few days. I plan on buying myself brand new sheets when I reach the one month mark. IP: Logged |
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crowjoy Housemate |
I love the FlyLady... it's really been working! My house is actually tidy and it's contagious. We actually swept, mopped and vaccuumed Saturday morning, just for the heck of it. Who have I become?? Yay for new sheets! I got some last week too... splurged on 320 thread count (at Marshalls, $50) and can't wait to snuggle into them. A great reward, I agree! IP: Logged |
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yam Housemate |
Hah, seriously, the flylady is great. Last week my boyfriend, who hadn't been over in the week previous, during which time I start flyladyering, put a spoon in the sink. I was like "hey, no spoons in the sink!" and paused for minute "wow, that's um, a really drastic policy change for me, isn't it..." It's cool how easy a change it was to make, though. My house is getting clean clean clean. My only remaining stumbling block is the evil litter box of doom. IP: Logged |
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bali Housemate |
My roommate moved out and took the TV with her, and I am amazed at how much cleaner I am. Now I clean when I get home instead of turning on the TV and ploping onto the couch for the endless friends reruns. I have never done my dishess immediately after I eat, but now I think it is nice to wake up to a kitchen that is not a holy mess! Granted it has only been a week... but I have hope
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leanne Housemate |
I am still at the shiny sink phase. Sean has been pretty good about putting dishes in the wash tup under the sink that I bought and now the sink is sparkly all the time! I even caught his drying the sink out when he finished the dishes the other day! I have to get the unpacking finished, and for that I need some furniture and a van to get rid of the fruit of my "flings", but I made a calendar of the zones so Sean and I will know our tasks when we are ready to clean for 15 minutes a day. IP: Logged |
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breana Housemate |
I finally got one of those handy magnets for the dishwasher that you rotate to indicate clean and dirty dishes. No more double washing and wasting water! Also, no more worrying that dishes were put back rinsed but not actually cleaned. Blech. IP: Logged |
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crowjoy Housemate |
I have to share my giggly self satisfation with my very own flyladyish strategy! I use those dryer sheets and when I fold the clothes I take the used sheet and dust something with it. Since I am practically always doing laundry something is getting dusted at least once a day. Amazing. It's become a game to find something I'd never think to dust and dirty up that dryer sheet. Makes it easier to rationalize using them too. IP: Logged |
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amandafaith Housemate |
quote: That is a GREAT idea! IP: Logged |
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Goddess09 Housemate |
Admittedly, I've kind of been less successful than you others. Maybe because I've not actually signed up for flylady's daily reminders-- but I blame it on my roommate who hasn't done dishes in weeks and weeks and that made it difficult to have the shiny sink and I was stubbornly refusing to clean up his mess-- And then I had an idea. We're going to box up most of our dishes and stow them in a closet. There's only two of us, after all, and we don't need eight dinner plates and 20 mugs. We just keep using them and using them until we run out and have a mountain. But if we have less to go throughgthen that can't happen. And we can get them out if we have company. YEAH! My theory is that a clean kitchen will make us keep everything else clean. We'll see. I hereby vow to be better. At cleaning, that is. IP: Logged |
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leanne Housemate |
A suggestion for the bad roommate syndrome: buy a nice Rubbermaid tub and stack all the dishes in it and keep it under the sink. If it is roomy's turn to wash and has forgotten, you can put the tub on his bed. IP: Logged |
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crowjoy Housemate |
I like how you think Leanne! Since I've been keeping things tidy for the last few weeks Mander has really picked up on it too. It might work for a roommate? This morning she cleaned off the only surface in the bedroom still cluttered, the top of her dresser. I am completely wowed. Not because she's a slob or anything, but just that it's so contagious. It all started with the kitchen sink. IP: Logged |
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Dewgirl Housesitter |
I signed up for the FlyLady but unsubscribed right away again. I couldn't deal with the multitudes of emails reminding me to do stuff I do anyway (like get dressed?)...but I did take away from it several suggestions of things I don't normally do...like the 15 minute pickups and such. IP: Logged |
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breana Housemate |
quote: Thank God I'm not the only person who does this.... IP: Logged |
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kena Housesitter |
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BTW, I have to say I just cleaned my oven! I'm moving in two days and I'm trying to leave the appartment really clean for the very nice people we subletted from. Ok, I'll go get my laundry downstairs and wash some dishes now... IP: Logged |
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jh Housemate |
I was part of the Flylady stuff until I got fed-up by the simplest instructions in the emails. I'm not a SAHM, so I didn't have time for most of that stuff. I do follow my own 5-minute cleanup though. I don't do mine immediately when I get home, but the last 5 minutes before bed. I figure it's better this way in case somebody shows up unknown after work, when they arrive the house should be clean from the previous night and I tend to not make much mess when getting ready in the morning. If I do have guests coming over and have some time beforehand, I just rush around and do little spot checks of the worst places, like the mail dump on the counter, dining room table that's never used for eating, and the bathroom floor that attracts hair. My tip for keeping the toilet clean is to use one of those little bleach tablets. The water in our area (Milwaukee) tends to make things orange, but with the bleach tablet I don't have to clean it every week. And not plopping down in front of the TV is a really good idea. I've been very guilty of this lately but I to check what's on and make sure that I don't just sit there watching something I don't care about just because it's on. Sort of like when you can't find the remote and you're too lazy to get up and change the cannel. Vinegar and baking soda are great for cleaning everything. I use vinegar in my dishwasher as anti-spot rinse. Baking soda and soap make a good non-scratch cleaner to get rid of soap scum. geez, I could go on forever, but I won't. jess IP: Logged |
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